Do you know Vaginismus ? Velvi-Kit The Right Solution

In order to create the most helpful support network around the question of vaginismus, our project here at Velvi is supported by people highly aware of this matter, or being themselves affected by this mental block.

Our true and first vocation is to provide an Internet-based information site to hopefully break the taboo of vaginismus and to raise public and healthcare professionals'' awareness to the reality of this problem.

It is a fairly common sexual dysfunction which can occur at any age. Vaginismus is an intimate disorder which generates an irrational fear of intercourse and which most often makes it impossible for the affected women to be penetrated by their partner.

This definition excludes vulvovaginal disorders which can also make penetration unobtainable. In vaginismus, sexual organs are fully functional and show no sign of any pathology, but as soon as the penis approaches, the pelvic floor muscles tighten unintentionally yet very strongly. These contractions are repeated, persistent and absolutely uncontrollable, making any intercourse attempt impossible or at least extremely painful even though the sexual relation is consciously highly desired by the woman.

The Velvi Kit is a set offering a very discreet carrying package (no label or logo on it), six vaginal dilators (also called “candles”), a removable handle and a booklet of forty pages (instructions).

Each Velvi dilator is a purple cylindrical element, smoothly shaped in plastic and specifically adapted to vaginal dilation exercises. The different sizes of the dilators available allow a smooth evolution and a very gradual transition from one element to the other.

Are the dilators dangerous for the human body ?

Our vaginal dilators are made of polycarbonate approved by the European Pharmacopoeia and are certified BPA-free and Phthalate-free according to the European RoHS Directive (Restriction of Hazardous Substances). They are completely compatible with the human body and their insertion into the vagina is fully safe.

Who is it intended for ?

In addition to being very useful for women who encounter vaginismus, Velvi dilators help relieve other vaginal conditions such as vulvodynies, dyspareunia, vaginal stenosis, vaginal agenesis, MRKH syndrome or can be used after a vaginoplasty. Note that for all these vaginal diseases, therapeutic support and/or medical treatment is most often needed.

How can the Velvi Kit help women suffering from vaginismus ?

The Velvi dilators set of different sizes can greatly relieve the discomfort resulting from vaginismus when used properly. Through regular exercises, it allows women to become more aware of their pelvic floor muscles and to gradually take control over the “closing reflex”. After a while, they will be able to enjoy intercourse again or for the first time, to introduce a tampon or to go through gynecological examination.

Can I use the Velvi dilators without a prescription and without being followed by a doctor ?

In the specific case of vaginismus, the Velvi Kit can be used completely autonomously, at home and in the most intimate environment. Women can as well choose to use it with their husband, a doctor or a therapist. A prescription is not required. However, for greater efficiency and in order to stay motivated throughout the whole process, it is highly recommended to be followed by a professional.

Caution ! For other types of vaginal diseases, dilators should only be used after discussing the topic with a physician.

A vaginal dilator is a sexual health tool specially designed for therapeutic counseling and sexual rehabilitation of women facing vaginal issues, and particularly by vaginismus. Although sex toys can participate in the healing of these women, the use of vaginal dilators is much more appropriate thanks to their simplicity of use and their gradual sizes.

A few tips on how to use properly a Velvi dilator

First, generously lubricate the dilator and the entrance to your vagina. Then gently spread your labia and insert the dilator very slowly inside your vaginal canal. Keep in mind that pushing on your perineum will help you while introducing it. Do not try to guide the dilator, in general it will keep going in the right direction by itself.

When starting a new exercise with a dilator, do not immediately try to make any sort of movements. Wait a bit and let some time to your vagina to get used to the fact that a dilator is inserted without moving. Then gradually make small series of contractions and relaxations of your pelvic floor muscles.

Once you are able to introduce a dilator without difficulty, massage yourself gently around the vaginal entrance. If at this level you do not feel pain – and only at this condition – you can try smooth and small back and forth movements. You may not feel comfortable right away, but you will gradually get used to these exercises.

It can happen that the inserted dilator slips and leaves your vagina “by its own”. Do not worry ! This phenomenon can be explained by the total relaxation of the pelvic floor muscles. If you were not finished with your exercise, do not hesitate to replace it gently and to hold it with the handle.

At the end of your session, remove gently and slowly your vaginal dilator. If you feel any pain, do not hesitate to stop the process for a few moments. Repeat slowly your breathing exercises and try to realize your cough or bowel movement simulations. With a bit of practice, the slight discomfort you can experience while taking out the dilator will disappear.

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